Saturday, September 19, 2009

We have a deal,

my sister and I.

One week I go over to her house and we do a project.

The next week, she comes over to my house and we do a project.

Sometimes we deep clean a room,

sometimes we work on a craft that needs to be finished,

sometimes it's just housework that one of us is drowning in.

This week it was canning pears at her house.

But it's while the two of us are working

(and taking tiny breaks every now and then to care for children),

it's then that the best stuff happens.

Our kids are becoming the best of friends.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Our day is ending.

I had a whole 'nother post planned for today and then this happened right at bedtime -


(Hannah was doing a show titled "Fairies. Do they have presidents or queens?")

It rhymed so well with our morning that it made a beautiful stanza of our day.

It was a good one.

Our day has begun.







It's shaping up to be a good one.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

This week it was back to school.

I know that 'unschooling' or 'life learning' can seem obscure to the uninitiated. That it can be disconcerting to look at an unschooling family when you still think in terms of 'subjects' that life is broken up into. So I've tried to break the beginning of our week up into subjects for you.

It started out with Art.

And Writing.

Then came Gardening mixed in with English (limericks to be precise).

"Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers."

The teacher was told to knock it off by her unimpressed students.

Then Economics. (The girls were selling the peppers and sunflower leaves to each other.)

Fast on the heels of Economics came Healthy Communication and Safe Interpersonal Relationships.

Then Logic, Math, English, Reading, and Art delivered in Computer class. During Lunchtime.

Then Architecture.

Then naptime for the youngest student who thought he was attending Demolition.

Physical Education (in the form of bike riding) to expend energy.

Animal Husbandry.

Theatre. In the bathtub with mermaid dolls.

Organization. (For some reason it became Very Important that all shoes were lined up in pairs on the table by the little one.)

Shop Class.



Mathematics.

Alchemy.

(Water and cement dust and rocks turning into a hard rock is magical. You can put this in 'Science' if you'd rather.)

Foreign Language. (via Rosetta Stone, Diego, and Kai-Lan)

More Botany. (Looking for more of this.)

Science. Entomology, if you must know.

Animal Reproduction. Again.

No Octomom jokes, please. My cat deserves better than that. (And this eight kitten litter has finally convinced my husband that it's worth it to spay a barn cat! I'm over the moon!)

Geography. And Prejudice and Tolerance. ("Mother, what's a Mexican?" "Someone who's from Mexico. We're American because we're from the United States of America. It's just the label for the country you're from." "Oh, I thought it was an insult." *sigh* For some it is, unfortunately. So we talked about that.)

More art.


And Grandparent's Day, of course.

After reviewing their day, I came to the conclusion that the only thing that they missed was recess.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Interesting process.

It's interesting watching how reading begins with no formal training. Hannah's showing more and more interest in words and sounds and letters. As she shows more interest, I introduce things to her that I think she might enjoy and help her with things that she requests that we do.

An example of the former is Reading Eggs, a game on the computer that lets you hatch out odd creatures when you finish a reading lesson. I knew Hannah would be intrigued by the animals and would respond to the 'collecting' business, but I wasn't sure how she would respond to the very obvious lessons.

She made it through 23 lessons before she gave up in disgust because "They make me repeat everything twenty trillion and a half times. Do they think I'm stupid?" Repetition makes her crazy, apparently. When you know that the short 'a' sound is made by the letter 'a', and you're asked to tell them that fifteen times in a row, it's frustrating.

She'll likely go back to it later, when the memory has faded and the desire to get more animals trumps any bad taste left in her mouth. Then I'll probably have to pay for it for her to finish it (after a free trial period, you have to pay for the program).

An example of something that she's asked me to do is when she found the book Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons in our boxes of books as I was unpacking. I've had it since before she was born. My mother taught all of my siblings and me to read when we were three or four, so I was going to do the same. .... ..... .....

Anyway, she asked what it was, and I told her it was a lesson book for teaching someone to read. She said "Oh, like in Little House on the Prairie?" and next thing I knew, she was Mary to my Ma and I was 'teaching' her to read. She did five lessons straight and then declared it was recess. The book's been sitting on the desk, but she hasn't asked for any more lessons. That was a month ago.

Her interest is obviously there. Her reading to others has been amped up. She's always liked to memorize books and read them to any captive audience,



but now she's taken to asking me to read more slowly so that she can read along with me. She can read picture books to Ainsley almost word-perfect after reading them with me two or three times, which is really fun to hear.

So I play along with that, finding picture books that will hold Ainsley's interest and provide some challenge for Hannah's memorization and verbal skills.

The biggest thing I've been doing, however, is playing games with her - most of them games she makes up or games made up by my husband or myself from questions she asks. For a girl who thrives on connection and relationships, this seems to be the way to go right now.

One of her favorite games is the 'rhyming game'. It's an obvious one. Out of the blue she'll say "Let's find a word that rhymes with .... " and we do. That can go on for a loooong time.

Another game is the 'h' game. She noticed that a plastic bag someone was carrying had lots of 'h's on it, but only one 'h' was at the beginning of a word. That led us to talk about how the letter 'h' changes the sound of other letters sometimes. It can make a hard 'c' or 's' or 't' or 'p' or 'o' or 'w' into a soft, gentle sound. So "Tank You for Sopping Here" becomes "Thank you for Shopping Here." Now she loves to play with mixing letters and seeing how it changes their sounds.

The most recent game came from a group of spelling cards that she got in a fast food meal. Since the spelling itself is a bit above her, we'd ask her to tell us the beginning sound or ending sound of the words on the list as we read them. She liked that for a few minutes and then was done, but the next day, she started saying things like 'tortoise starts with tuh' out of the blue (and usually apropos of nothing we could see). So that's been fun.

It will be interesting to see how it progresses from here. Whether it speeds up and she learns to read soon or if she slows back down to let her brain absorb all of the new stuff she's learning before she starts back up again. I'm much relaxed from my pre-parent "My kids will read as early as I did" views. They seem to have gone the way of my "My kids will never do that" and "Obedience is the most important trait a child should have" views. They all flew out the hospital window when Hannah was born. Good riddance, I say.

A snake in the house.

"Look, Mother! Did you ever think you'd have a naga in your very own house?"

(The naga that we learned about here was a snake with two female human heads. We get a naga in our house about once a month, when the girls wrap up in a towel or blanket and stumble around giggling about being "a snake girl. I mean girls.")

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Ainsley says ...

--Today while we were working in the butterfly garden, Hannah asked me to come get Gray out of her flax because he was throwing rocks in it. "Yeah," says Ains, and then, in a very sweet voice "I want to die him." Huh. The words did not match either the tone or her actions - no sibling nastiness going on there at all.

--Ains came running upstairs in one of the masks that she and Hannah make off of Jumpstart. "Hi, Ains!", I said. "I not Ainser, I SOOPUH HEWOH!!!" Huh. As long as she doesn't wear a cape, right?

--Matt sat down next to me on the couch. Not ten seconds later there was a scream and a "GET OUT MY CUDDING SPOT!!!" Apparently he was in her cuddling spot, which I didn't know she had but I'm very glad she does.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Yesterday ... Today.

Was too tired last night to post much, so here's our day yesterday.

The girls woke up and immediately started playing with their cats and rats.

Cats can be a bother at breakfast, though.

It was 35 degrees Fahrenheit early in the morning. It was 47 degrees when the girls were ready to go outside. They chose to stay inside, so we read for two hours.

Hannah even took a turn reading to Gray.

I've had these tactile type of books for both my girls, and they've liked them ok, but they are essential for Gray. I've doubled the number of books with interesting textures since he's started showing interest - he loves them.

Sometimes they even require getting up close.

When it was warm enough, the girls went out to the trampoline to play - with the cats and rats of course.
It was a game with rules to complicated for me to understand. Two rules I did get were 'If you jump on a rat, you have to sit down for an hour.' and 'If you jump on a cat it becomes rat protection for the next rat you jump on.'

Then cousins (different cousins than the day before) came over to play. All of the kids got two pony rides. One in the afternoon without saddles and a much, much longer one later in the evening with saddles. Very exciting stuff.

Lots of cousin play. My kids see these cousins every time they come to Grandma's house and think of them as an essential part of the visit.

Popsicles are essential.

That's as close to 'sit down to eat your popsicles' as you're going to get four kids.

Then, as a bonus, the cousins spent the night! So this morning they've watched some PBS (Sesame Street is not as good as I remember, but the song still makes me happy.) Now they're playing Bambino Dino, Harvest Time, and Granny's House. It's cold outside.

Monday, September 7, 2009

Rats and Cats.

We've had a lovely day. It's been overcast, so we've gotten lots of outside play in. A long, long horse and pony ride with cousins. Very fun.

Trampoline jumping.

Puzzles.

Hose play. Tears. Discussions about not trying to spray the grass on the other side of your sister by spraying *through* her body. ("But, Mother, I didn't think she'd want her hair to get wet, so I couldn't spray it *over* her, now, could I?" Uh-huh.)

Trampoline jumping. Giggling. Forgiveness.

Reading.

Throwing balls and rocks for the dog.

Shopping. Finding exciting embroidery options, cheap thread, and even cheaper buttons.

Freaking out just a tiny bit about red hair getting 'funky' in the wind.

Finding exciting toys on the cheap at the grocery store. Cats for Hannah, rats (RATS!) for Ainsley.

Jiggety-jig.

Playing with new toys.
For a long, long time.

Trying to feed said toys hummus.

Talking with Grandpa Rex.

Making dinner. Pizza casserole. A dinner that Hannah can make with only a bit of help with the hot stuff from me (well, the hot stuff and grating nine-tenths of the cheese - that gets boring you know).

Telling Grandpa Rex a hilarious joke.

Books with Daddy.

Sleep.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Snapshot Sunday 09-06-09

We're not at home this week, but I'm not comfortable taking snapshots of my mother-in-law's home. For one thing, it's not mine. For another, it would make me look bad. She's immaculate.

So here's us. Here. Trying not to take up too much space.











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