Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Readjusting to the rhythm of daily life.

Milking, riding bikes and scooters, crafting, gardening, laundry, and so much playing ...


We're getting back into the swing of things here.


How did we survive without dress-up clothes for an entire week?

And Mod Podge.

I've got pictures to get up from our trip for family that wants to see them, so bear with me as I get them put up throughout the week. Those posts will be picture heavy - but such *cute* pictures, so it's worth it. Right?

Sunday, May 9, 2010

About mothers.

We're home. I have lots of chores, unpacking, and blogging to do and I realized that today's Mother's Day.

For the past few months, I have wanted to do a lovely, stirring, heartfelt post on this day about the women who have been important in my life, but I have neither the time nor the energy for that.


I'll have to save the post for another time. I wanted to talk about the influence for good that all of my aunts and grandmother had in my life, even though they only saw me once a year for a few days. I wanted to talk about my sisters and the source of strength they've been to me as we've all grown out of our childhood and the mother we had and into the mothers that we want to be. I will, in a future post, talk about a cousin who became a close friend and a motherhood mentor -though she likely doesn't know it - and, randomly, another cousin's wife who has - though she definitely doesn't know it - been one of the best examples for me of a calm and loving mother. I can't forget the midwife who was there when Ains and Gray came into this world and who treated birth like it was a normal, natural part of life and not necessarily a medical event. Then there are those who I've never *really* met - the close group of online friends who were a source of support and information and laughter in this mothering journey, especially when Gray went into the hospital. And all of you, who I've met through blogging (including the two of you who I *have* been lucky enough to meet), who have given me ideas and who let me see the kind of supportive, struggling, empowering, and really fun mothers you are.

Happy Mother's Day to all of you, in the States or outside of the States. Thank you for being a part of my life, and maybe I'll get around to writing that post next year.

Right now I need to be in my garden.

Crossposted on It Blows Here.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

A real vacation.

Family vacation time. It's not often with my husband's job that we can all go on a proper vacation as a family. For the next week, we are doing just that, traveling to the west coast of Oregon. Last night we made it as far as Pendleton and were lucky enough to get a hotel with a swimming pool.

We have one of my friend's kids traveling with us - Flat Kathryn - and she came to the pool with us. Unfortunately, she forgot her swimsuit, so she had to stay by our towels the whole time.

She's a good sport.

This morning we went to the Pendleton Woolen Mills which was very cool. In the store we saw some beautiful blankets. This one was my favorite. The bottom of it is silhouettes of people looking at the stars, the top is constellations. Beautiful. Expensive, but beautiful.

The kids found little stuffed lambs and had the good fortune (or the good sense) to show them to their daddy before me.

"Baa Baa Black Sheep is telling you to buy this shirt, Mommy."

This very pretty $85 shirt.

A few minutes later, I hear laughing and turn to see some ladies giggling because Ains was dragging this huge sheep by its ear.

What are you doing with that? "Baa Baa Black Sheep needs a mommy to nurse on. It's a weequiament." It is a requirement, sweetie, but we're not taking that sheep home.

Then we drove farther west to The Dalles area and visited an area with some beautiful waterfalls.

We saw our first moss-covered rocks, which was more exciting than you'd think because a moss-covered rock is the main character in one of our favorite books.

And a very exciting thing happened - Grayson finally did his first real sign. Train.

We had to stand there and watch the entire train go by while he signed 'train' the whole time. Very exciting.

At the next falls, Ains found "the stwangest thing in the whole wowld."

In-between the cracks on the rock wall, behind the moss, were worms. Living in the wall.

"I can't beweeve they're weal! They're weally weal!"

Multnomah Falls was the last one we stopped at. It's a two-level falls with a bridge going over the bottom one.

We hiked up to the bridge and looked over.

"Holy crap!" is what that little chihuahua is saying.

Then we went back down and had lunch in the Oregon drizzling rain.

For the record, I didn't do that to him. When I put a stocking hat on his head, that's how he wears it.

Everything grows so much faster out here with this much moisture. At home we're just now getting dandelions. Here they're already one foot tall.

On our way out, Hannah saw a sign that sent her into a high-pitched squeal. "That sign says Ains on it!" So we stopped.

Our next plan was to go to a planetarium show in Portland and we were on schedule to get there an hour early. We never got there because there was an accident fifteen minutes outside of the city that kept us sitting on the interstate for over an hour and a half.

So we'll try to do the planetarium show tomorrow. That left us with a free night in Portland. I wanted to go to a bookstore I heard about in downtown Portland. It's called Powell's and it's the biggest bookstore I've ever been in.

It covers an entire city block and is four stories full of books. When you walk in, this sign, telling you where to go for which type of books, greets you. And they give you a map. And laugh at you for being a country girl who takes a picture of their sign.

I dropped everyone else off in the kid's section - Matt's a good sport -

and went to explore.

It was overwhelming.

After we each got a book we wanted, we headed back to the hotel.

Don't mind them. They think that umbrellas are necessary in Oregon whether it's raining or not. It's a fashion statement.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

It's too much.

Much too much help with packing for our vacation.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

These are things I have to say?

"Ainsley, let your brother out of the kennel."

It's been too long since a 'funny things said around here' post.

Some from Hannah.

Me:"I love you Hannah."
Hannah: "Well, that's good to know."

"I think he must have a spyglass?" Who? "Santa Claus, of course." (she was listening to "Santa Claus is Coming to Town")

This one's from a few months ago. Hannah decided she wanted some fish. We already have enough of a zoo around here, so Matt said "It's not a good time right now." She climbed on his lap and gave him a big hug and some kisses. He said "Are you trying to buy fish with hugs and kisses?"

*Blink* *Blink* "Yes."

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

What a life.

Spring is here, which means I'm not. I'm outside milking, planning, planting, playing. Since I try to only do computer stuff when my kids are otherwise occupied (sleeping, mostly), and during those times I'm usually otherwise occupied (sleeping, mostly), not a lot of blogging is getting done.

This morning, my husband has taken the kids to the cattle auction with him, and it's raining outside, so I get a bit of free time inside. Looking around my house makes me think that I should be using this free time for something besides computer time ... You can certainly tell we've been busy outside by looking at the inside.

I've pored through the snapshots from our last week, and here's what I have to offer.

Coming back in from milking to find the girls in a brown bath.

"Guess what we discovered, Mother? Bath water is hot enough to melt chocolate chips!" You don't say.

Superhero puzzles.

Picnics completely orchestrated by kids.

Telling stories of fairies in the dark.

Discovering Parcheesi.

Making masks.

Hanging laundry.

Decorating a playhouse for Grayson.




And a whole lot of playing on scooters and bikes, horse riding, egg gathering, running (Hannah wants to run a marathon when she's older now), pretending, and cooking.

What a life.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Outdoor Challenge - garden day.

Today was a garden day. Planting while the pirates serenaded me on their harmonicas,

and searched islands for buried treasure.

Some of you have asked how Bella is getting along with the other dogs. Butterfly fell in love with her immediately. Since she is about half the size of his head, it took her a bit longer to warm up to him, but now she has and she rules the roost there. Cygnus has been less friendly and we've had to monitor that relationship, protecting her at times and letting them figure things out at others when we're able to step in.

Today, finally, they hit it off. Cygnus watched that little dog dig for all she was worth to dig out a vole. She wasn't able to kill it. He was. Now they're a team.

Whatever works.

Are you playing the Outdoor Challenge?

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Of dead rats and eyeballs.

The dissecting began tonight. Ainsley's first words this morning were "When is Daddy goin' be home to dissect?"

It was a longish day.

When Matt got home, the girls had the craft table cleared and set up for dissecting. He'd told them he'd do one of each of their specimens tonight (they each picked two from the magazine). Hannah picked her cow eyeball and Ains picked her rat, and they got started.

Did you see that? Over there on the left hand side? Here's a close-up.

Damn, he's cute! Sat there through the whole thing, giggling and pointing and trying (unsuccessfully) to get his hands on innards.

I wasn't sure how the girls would go from the idea of dissecting to the actual act of dissecting. We were ready for them to sign out as soon as they realized that they'd have to cut into these things. Not hardly. They are their Daddy's kids.

They were so excited to see the body parts that they'd learned about through computer games and board games.

This first time, they were simply interested in organs (below is Hannah inspecting the small intestines) and the bones ("Can I pull out the bones?" said Ainsley - definitely their daddy's children).

But my husband, he's very knowledgeable and one little question would lead to lengthy answers and even diagrams drawn on the paper table cover.

Which led to Hannah abandoning the rat for her cow eyeball

and Ainsley explaining things back to him - in hilarious three-year-old fashion - with her own diagrams.

Luckily, he realized what was happening and sucked Hannah back in with lungs and a heart. Not often you get to type that sentence out. ("I'll look," she said, "but I won't listen. That's boring and I want to do the eyeball.")

He had them being really hands-on (not that he could stop them) and they loved handling the different organs and cutting them open to look inside. It was really fascinating and I wished that Matt could have kept talking as in-depth as he had been because I was learning a lot.

But it was time to move on to the eyeball. Talk about fascinating. Matt explained to Hannah what different parts had malfunctioned in her Grandpa and Great-Grandpa's eyes which was cool. We learned so much about how the eye works by taking it apart, consulting the eye dissection pamphlet, and handling the different parts.

It was perplexing at times.
And required some up-close inspection.

It was fun.

"Now I want to do the snake!" said Ainsley.

Not tonight. After clean-up, it was time for dinner. During dinner Ains got busy making .... something.

What is it? "It's a spaceship for Donald Duck. It's a swirly twirly spaceship so he can get around."

That's all I got.